As a family law attorney, I've seen how social media can become a minefield for my clients going through divorce. Posts, photos, likes, comments - they may feel cathartic in the moment but can ultimately damage your case down the road. I advise all my clients to seriously limit social media use during divorce proceedings.
Venting about your soon-to-be-ex on social media may feel satisfying initially, but those posts can be used against you. I've seen angry late-night posts used to portray clients as unstable or cast doubt on their fitness as a parent. Even posts that seem benign can be twisted if they show you out partying or traveling frequently while battling over custody. The less ammunition you provide, the better.
Also beware oversharing details about your finances, job, or housing circumstances. This information is usually kept private during a divorce for good reason. Providing too many specifics on social media allows your soon-to-be-ex to gain valuable insight into your financial standing. You don't want to accidentally reveal anything that could harm your settlement prospects.
Beyond your own posts, you also can't control what others post about you. Even if you vet your own social media, a friend may casually mention your new relationship status or living arrangements. Be prepared for anything on your page to be seen and potentially used against you. The safest bet is asking close connections to temporarily refrain from posting about your divorce on their accounts.
Finally, limit engagement with your soon-to-be-ex online. Responding angrily or spitefully to their posts drags you down to their level and again provides fuel to portray you negatively. Take the high road and avoid social media interactions with soon-to-be exes.
The risks are real when mixing social media and divorce. My best advice is always assume anything you post could potentially be used against you in court. Say less online, filter more, and let your legal team handle getting the message out. A few months of social media restraint during the divorce process could save you big time in the long run.
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